Why is my husband jealous of my son?

I recently married after 22 years of being a single mom. We dated for six months so I thought I knew the guy. He moved in with my son and me and immediately began criticizing my parenting and my son's behavior. The first week he flipped out because my son was putting lotion on my back. He said I was "parading around naked". Then he accused my son of having an Oedipus Complex because we danced together at our wedding. Last night he completely lost it when my son gave me some cute little PJ's for my birthday. He stormed out and hasn't come home or called in almost 12 hours. My son say's I need to kick him out. I really want my marriage to work. I love my husband but I don't think he loves me. How could he if he thinks I'm the kind of person that would cheat on him?